So, how on earth do you stay calm and collected in a tough environment? Below are some tips that you may use as a starter to self improvement.
Imagine yourself as a Dart Board. Every person and everything around you may become dart pins..
If you allow them, these dart pins will destroy your self esteem. Don’t let them destroy you, or get the best of you. So which dart pins should you avoid?
#1 : Negative Work Environment
Beware of the “Dog eats dog” theory. This is where
everyone is fighting to reach the top, getting ahead of others. Stay out of this.
#2: Other People’s Behaviour
Bulldozers, whiners, snipers, back stabbers, controllers, wounded people, complainers, naggers, exploders, .. All these types of people you need to stay clear of as these people will cause bad vibes to your self improvement scheme and self image.
#3: Changing Environment
You can’t be a red bug on a green leaf. Life’s changes challenge our paradigms and alters the way we think. These changes may make life difficult for a while but it will help us on our way to improve ourselves. Change will be there forever, we must be susceptible to it.
#4: Past Experience
It’s okay to cry and say “ouch!” when we experience pain. But don’t let pain transform itself into fear. It might grab you by the tail and swing you around. Treat each failure and mistake as a lesson.
#5: Negative World View
Look at what you’re looking at. Don’t wrap yourself up with all the negativities of the world. If we want to build our self esteem we have to learn how to make the best of any bad situation.
Dart Pin #6: Determination Theory
The way you are and your behavioural traits is said to be a “Mixture of your upbringing, your genes, and your environmental surrounding.” This is not completely true. If your father is a failure, it doesn’t mean you have to be a failure too. Learn from other people’s experience, so you’ll never have to encounter the same mistakes.
Sometimes, we wonder if certain people were born leaders. This is not actually so.
It is incredible how one, basic affirmative act can transform so much in a person's life. Some of things that can have an enormous effect on your life is the awareness of the power of gratitude. Applying gratitude can influence every facet of your life. Here are 4 incredible ways integrating gratitude into your life are able to change it for the better.
1) Gratitude Can Get You Away From a Foul State of mind
Instead of angering at someone, show gratitude for them instead. This isn't always going to be simple since it is a substantial change of mindsets. If someone makes you very upset, instead of snapping at them, concentrate as an alternative on those points that make you grateful. Accomplishing this can gradually change your frame of mind. Showing your gratefulness toward someone instead of anger will not only enhance your mood, but it can transform your relationship and make things much better.
2) Gratitude Is Able To Improve Your Relationship
Whilst it is always vital to talk out your issues with your partner or loved one, criticizing them constantly will rapidly weaken your relationship. Rather, when you end up feeling need to criticize them, stop and take a deep breath, and relax. Start to consider all the reasons you are thankful for your partner, then share your thankfulness with them asap. Revealing your appreciation will help to make your partnership stronger.
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Many moms and dads get frustrated with their kids. Sadly, many parents also convey their frustrations to their kids, leaving behind their kids to think negative about themselves. Instead of continually criticising, take a second to relax and think about all the ways you are thankful for your children. Share these reasons with your children and seize the day to show them, instead of criticizing them. You'll each be better for it.
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4) Gratitude Is Able To Assist You Much Better To Handle Tragedy
Whenever you experience a tragedy, try to become thankful for the life that you still have. Dealing with misfortunes in your life could be devastating if you allow them to conquer you. While you wish to grieve, you may also think about the thankfulness for the life you still have:. Love for people you have in your life and gratitude for the charm of life. Seize the day to give thanks for those individuals in your life and take pleasure in your life whilst you can.
Change Your Thoughts
Law Of Attraction
Procrastination / Laziness
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.