The Biggest Adventure You may Take, is Living the Life of Your Dreams...Don't Allow Dream Killers to Enter Your House...

Having a dream for your life is a wonderful thing. It gives you hope for the future and encourages you to not give up when you approach roadblocks along the way. But beware, there are dream killers that you will stumble upon, leading to the prevention of your dreams to be fulfilled.

Possible reasons why it could be that you are currently not living towards your dream life and what to do about it.

• Clear goals have not been set on where you want to be. For an example, instead of saying you feel fat, make it your goal to lose weight. Actively change whatever you don't like about the situation. Many people say they don’t like their current job, but what are they actively doing about it?
• A Goal without a plan is just a wish. If you have set goals, did you specify a  way to make your goals happen? If you want to lose weight, did you find an eating and exercise plan and commit to it?

• Do you surround yourself with the wrong people? If the people which surround you are negative and don’t believe in your dreams, their negativity will drain into your subconscious mind. It is hard to be positive when everyone around you is negative Always surround yourself with people who can take you higher.  If you want a better life, you need to be in the correct mindset otherwise, you will not succeed.
• Do not wait for the perfect conditions before you make a change. Rather try being happy where you are right now. Happiness can’t be found, but you can create it. You can still while busy changing things have gratitude for the things you have.
• Don’t procrastinate. It is a lot easier to let life happen to you, instead of actively trying to change things yourself. You have to set time aside to create goals and do whatever it takes for you to get that goal done.
•  Self-doubt. Very likely the biggest threat to your dream. Because if the enemy can get you to doubt yourself, you will have a list of toxic reasons why you’re able to reach your dreams.

 
Research suggests a variety of reasons on why we fail to do things we want to do, but three stand out:

• Fear of the unknown. We can’t predict the outcome of a new venture and we would like to prevent our self-esteem from getting damaged.
• The belief that we’ll perform better at a later stage when some circumstances changed first.
• Blaming excuses and circumstances from holding you back.

It is very dangerous to just sit back and wait for everything to fall in place, as this will not happen. If you do not set up your new venture correctly from the start, and make out that it is about your clients and not about yourself - your business will not succeed. How they benefit from you and what you giving them are what will make the difference between success and failure. A Good goal for your business is to make money doing something you love to do. A better goal is to make money doing something you love and also help with what other people need.
 
Many people blindly follow their passion, believing their love for it will be enough to make them successful. But it all can go terribly wrong soon as they forget to link what they love to something else that others will care about. If you want clients, you need to be concerned with why they should care about what you’re doing, even when you’re doing what you love. Never jump into a new business doing what you love without proper preparation and research. Remember that a passion with a mission behind it is a world-changing force.
 
Make use of proper preparation and spend your time doing something you passionately love. Move away from wasting your life on things that don’t matter to you. Start with defining what matters to you and why others should care about it as much as you do.

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